The Incarnation Cross That Called Me to Make Trouble
Why dismantling the ineffective status quo starts with learning your frequency.
I don’t do hypocrisy disguised as righteousness. I don’t tolerate “enlightenment” used as a weapon. And after the last week? That was the straw. So here we are: in perfect, cosmic timing I started a Human Design course on the Incarnation Cross. The part of your chart that points to your unique purpose, what you’re actually here to do. Of course my cross reads like a mission statement to challenge the establishment.
Why This Feels Personal (and Global)
My Incarnation Cross says: pull apart the systems that keep people trapped in one story. Push ideas that reorganize how humans relate to one another. Teach people how to find their individual place inside the collective. That’s not a gentle nudge. That’s a full-on purpose.
Which, if you’ve been watching the news (or your timeline), feels relevant. This isn’t about left versus right. It isn’t about canceling anyone who thinks differently. It’s about realizing our public conversation is broken: we mistake disagreement for evil, and correction for virtue. We’ve normalized the idea that if you don’t agree with my set of beliefs, you’re the enemy. And that’s exactly how we get manipulated and divided.
Ricky Gervais asked a brutal but useful question:
How arrogant do you have to be to think nobody will ever disagree with you?
Disagreement is the engine of growth. When we clap at only the voices that echo us, we get stupid together.
Our Current State (Short Version)
We’re homogenized. Governments, large institutions, and social-media fame machines have fused into a pressure to conform, and now a lot us (myself included in the past) are using righteous outrage to police each other. Complexity gets flattened into binary choices. Nuance dies. Curiosity gets replaced with performative certainty.
And yet, humans are not ironically binary. We are messy, contradictory, and complex. It’s not only possible to hold beliefs that look like they don’t belong together; it’s normal. Reducing every person to a single label is both dangerous and lazy.
My Purpose is Not to Tear One Side Down to Elevate Another
When my Incarnation Cross points me to “anti-establishment,” it’s not an instruction to pick Team A or Team B and torch the other. It’s an instruction to take the whole broken machine apart and invent something that actually works for ALL humans not just the loud ones.
The goal isn’t to prove someone wrong. The goal is to reorganize the collective so individual expression and shared thriving can coexist. Imagine systems designed to let humans be idiosyncratic and generative instead of fearful and performative. That’s MY work.
Why Human Design Matters Here (and Why It’s Urgent)
Human Design gives you your frequency: the energetic imprint you got the moment you were born. Your Design is the way you process, decide, and show up in the world. It’s not mystical fluff. It’s a practical map for how you make the most correct choices for yourself and, in turn, what perspective you offer the rest of us.
The point of Human Design is simple and radical: the world is supposed to contain billions of different perspectives. Your unique view is a piece of the collective puzzle. When everyone speaks from their correct frequency (humbly, clearly, and without needing to annihilate dissent), we all get smarter together.
So yes: learn your frequency. Know your decision-making mechanics. Understand the environment in which you thrive. Summarize what you learn, share it without self-righteousness, and let the conversation widen.
Experiments We Can Try
If you want to move from outraged spectator to active repairer, try these:
1. Learn your frequency. Get your Human Design chart. Read the basics: your Type, Strategy, Authority, and Profile. This isn’t a label. It’s information about how you’re designed to operate.
2. Practice curiosity over judgment. The next time you want to post about how wrong someone is, ask a question first. Listen to one long-form piece from someone you disagree with and try to summarize their point in three sentences.
3. Test your contradictions. Hold a belief that feels “opposed” inside you. Explore why you hold it. Where did it come from? What experience supports it? Treat your own mind like a research project.
4. Share with humility. When you explain your perspective, lead with “Here’s what I see from my place” rather than “You’re wrong.” Offer experience as data, not dogma.
5. Build cross-pollination habits. Subscribe to one newsletter, podcast, or feed that challenges you. Read one book from the other side at least once a year. Small, steady exposure reduces enemy-making.
A Modest Idealist’s Confession
I know this sounds wildly naive. I’ve always been an idealist. I imagine a world where people take responsibility for their words and actions, where humility trumps spectacle, and where we can admit someone else’s viewpoint has merit without surrendering our own truth.
That’s not weakness. It’s adaptive intelligence.
Systems want division because it’s easier to control a crowd that’s busy hating each other. If we want agency back, we have to model what it looks like to live complexly, as enigmas. To hold nuance, to debate without dehumanizing, to disagree without weaponizing.
There is no single way. That’s the point
The simplest, most important truth I can offer: there is no one right way to be human. There is your way — the life tuned to the frequency you were given — and there are nearly 8 billion other equally valid ways. Your way is for you. Their way is for them. We coexist. We learn. We evolve.
If you’re ready to start, start with your design. Learn your frequency. Speak from it with courage and curiosity. And for fuck’s sake, stop acting like disagreement is a moral defect.
Let’s stop fighting to prove who’s superior and start figuring out how to build a world where individual truth and collective flourishing are both possible.
If you want help reading your chart or turning your frequency into an actionable way of showing up (for work, leadership, relationships, whatever), let’s start a dialogue by replaying or DM and tell me what you already know about your Type. I’ll point you toward the simplest next step.
Yes! This 100%